Normalizing the Abnormal...

I’m not going into this diatribe meaning to kink-shame anyone…

Wait.

No, that’s exactly what I’m going to do.

And look, listen, I don’t care what one or more consenting adults do, legally, in the privacy of their own homes, knock yourselves out but, and, for the record, I’m a lifelong Liberal, and this brings out that little Conservative goblin I keep locked in a dark cellar with no food, water, windows or functioning plumbing. Don’t bitch at me, he prefers to use his own excrement as bedding.

However, I 100% believe that certain “kinks” or fetishes should straight-up be mocked, ridiculed and treated with contempt and I also believe those people engaging in one of these carnal abominations I’m about to get into, well, we have plenty of room at Guantanamo Bay from what I’ve read.

Now, in and of themselves, if you’re not hurting other people or animals, I suppose these kinks are quite harmless but…lately, in this cesspool we call a society, people have been allowing some of these acts into the sanctum of our decency as a civilization. In many case, they’re not just being normalized, they’re being welcomed.

And, it seems to me, that far, far too many people have confused “Diversity” with “Degeneracy”.

Now, a large part of that confusion has been very cleverly and covertly, subliminally even, downplayed, ignored and scoffed at by actual degenerates and their plan is working all too well.

But this isn’t about rattling off members of Congress who knowingly loosen Human Trafficking laws, like, the 20 Republican pinworms who voted “No” on the Frederick Douglass Trafficking Victims Prevention and Protection Reauthorization Act in July of 2022.

These would be the Republican pinworms irritating and itching the hell out America’s anus:

And if you’re having Deja Vu, yeah, Matt Gaetz voted against a similar bill aimed at Human Trafficking in 2017. He was the only “No” vote and gee, I can’t for the life of me figure out why HE’D be against tighter laws on Human Trafficking.

But this really isn’t a political post. Politics and disgusting, creepy perverts that roll around in each other’s bodily fluids at cocaine-fueled orgies play a large role in why our society has lost the plot when it comes to decency but set them aside…for now.

There are a lot of kinks and fetishes that have permeated the community collective and most people are completely unaware of it or are aware of it and choose to look away, all while the toilet keeps leaking and the floorboards start to rot.

For example, when those god-awful Fifty Shades movies came out, one of my best friends took her then fiancé to see them and each time she would come back she wouldn’t have much of anything positive to say about the movies themselves, and, let’s face it, they were dog shit. No, she was unsettled by just how many young girls were in their particular showing.

Of course, I asked what was wrong with teenaged girls going to see them and no, she was very clear, these were not adult teens, these were mid-teens and younger. So, it’s natural to assume that, at least, some of those kids were familiar with the laughably, to the point of a little bile coming up, categorized as “romance novels” that they were based on, and I’m not going to call them romance novels or even books anymore because E.L. James writes like a 3rd grader and, apparently, she writes for the old folks…the 8th graders.

And, let me be clear, BDSM is NOT a kink that should be shamed. I’ll get to the one that should be shortly.

From that day forward it was a little jarring to see just how much the BDSM lifestyle had become embedded and engrained in mainstream culture and, it’s not my thing but there’s nothing wrong with BDSM…however, when it starts appearing on magazine covers specifically for teenagers, I personally think that’s crossing a serious line.

From Cosmo Girl, Teen Vogue, Glitter, Affinity, The Teen Magazine and even Girls’ Life for fuck’s sake, there has been at least one cover photo or highlighted cover story about it and that’s extremely concerning.

But, BDSM is not what pisses me off about that, it’s how easily media markets, advertisers and merchants happily put it on a pedestal, when most teens are worried about a boy merely liking them, now they have this warped, violent and potentially abusive view of BDSM, that scumbags like E.L. James have finger-painted for them.

BDSM isn’t the problem and it’s not the kink that pisses me off to the core…

Daddy…

Never before have I seen a kink, fetish, whatever the fuck this filth-laden Electra Complex is, flaunted so flagrantly, arrogantly and proudly in everyday society’s face as “Daddy…”

One search for the keyword “Daddy” on Amazon and by a 3 to 1 ratio, I was met with results like these:

Right there for everybody and their momma to see and I know Amazon has an adult section but these are in t-shirts and novelty t-shirts and I don’t see the novelty in it. Maybe it’s because I’m older, I’m in my mid-forties now, but this is one kink, unlike BDSM, that should be absolutely, 100% shamed fucking mercilessly.

Now, one could argue that I’m just being a prude and maybe I am, fuck you, I don’t care, but I have custody of my soon-to-be 17 year old Niece and not only would it anger me and enrage me but it would sicken me to learn that she was with a man who allowed himself to be called “Daddy” by her and I would send him to the cemetery if he insisted that she did.

No real man would be in to that.

A real man is looking for a partner, an equal not a submissive, subservient childlike figure, and, when you add in the sexual aspects of it, beyond the incestuous depravity, I will always immediately suspect a man who gets sexual gratification or even indulges this of something far more sick and insidious.

But, there it is…

And mainstream media outlets, such as magazines, online or in print, bookstores who give it an entryway feature or online merchants who clearly don’t see the potential harm in humorizing and amplifying to pre-teens, teenagers and even young adult women that calling your significant other, boyfriend, husband or any fucking deadbeat man “Daddy” is misogynistic, and, in my opinion…

It’s normalized abuse…